Прививки: за и против.

[Рэдрик]

а других тем тут не осталось?

так можно в любой теме спросить

[Quanty]

https://themighty.com/2016/03/wife-r...trum-disorder/

My husband is a 33-year-old male. He also has autism.

We were together seven years before we realized he has autism. It wasn’t until after my eldest daughter was diagnosed after a few years of back and forth deliberation on my behalf that we finally got her assessed and diagnosed — and then it occurred to us that Cj has autism, too.

I knew my eldest daughter wasn’t “neurotypical” from about age 4 in kindergarten.

Back then I didn’t drive. So we walked everywhere. If I walked a different route to kindergarten, she would fall apart. If I didn’t give warning when I planned to change her usual breakfast food, she would not handle it. She never liked to be touched by other kids in kindergarten. She didn’t cope well with singing songs. She would cry and cover her ears when someone sang “Happy Birthday” louder than a hushed tone. She didn’t give good eye contact. She didn’t cope with meeting new people very well. She was rigid in her routine, and there were plenty of routines.

I mentioned these quirks of hers to my husband. He dismissed them as “normal.” He said he didn’t see the issue.

Wanna know why? Because it was his normal, too. He saw no issue with the way she behaved because he could see why. He could understand her triggers because they triggered him, too. And he had many of the exact same struggles when he was young that she was experiencing now. But no one made any connection.

............
A few evenings later after Sno was diagnosed, my husband and I sat down on the couch together and went through her diagnostic criteria. And it was here that we discovered so many of her quirks were the same as his.

We had been together for seven years by that point. Seven years of being in love, parenting together and living together. We’d only ever had three nights away from each other. Then all the pieces began to fall into place. The reasons behind his social overload and only ever wanting to go out one weekend day now both made sense, along with his exhaustion from talking to people. Even down to the specific way he liked to organize the pantry (hey, who was I to interrupt such beautiful methodology?). We chuckled over just how many things we had automatically adapted to without even noticing.

A few months later my husband went and had formal assessments done and received his official diagnosis at age 30. He greeted it with grief, but also relief."


must be those god damn vaccines!

[elfy]

Тесты то сдают. Нормально

И в лучшие университеты небось поступают ;)

[ciao]

И в лучшие университеты небось поступают ;)

или моделями потом работают как кардашанс

[Kapitula]

И в лучшие университеты небось поступают ;)

Не знаю. Да и не все из паблик в лучшие поступают

[elfy]

Не знаю. Да и не все из паблик в лучшие поступают

Согласна, что не все, но интересно, куда поступили эти, что по 20 минут в день на компьютере.

[marfa1]

некоторые занимаются сами, нанимают учителей на разные классы.
объединяются в группы и проводят занятия по-очереди

[marfa1]

так можно в любой теме спросить

персонажи из других тем мне незнакомы

[elfy]

некоторые занимаются сами, нанимают учителей на разные классы.
объединяются в группы и проводят занятия по-очереди

Тоже идея

[Kapitula]

Согласна, что не все, но интересно, куда поступили эти, что по 20 минут в день на компьютере.

Не знаю. Одна из них в хайскуле, будет танцовщицей. Вторая в элементами еще