Jewish dating
Step 1:
Discreetly let others know you are ready to begin a serious courtship, and ask them to introduce you to women whom they feel could be your future wife.
Step 2:
Look for someone who shares your values and principles.
Step 3:
Ask her female friends to share their feelings about her with you--but do not tell them you are dating, or intend to begin a dating relationship, as Jewish courtship tradition considers dating to a very personal, private thing.
Step 4:
Spend time together in settings where you can easily talk to each other, and focus on what is being said. Jewish courtship involves a great deal of talking with each other. For this reason, going to the movies, concerts, or other places where talking is limited, if not downright impossible, is not suggested.
Step 5:
Keep your hands to yourself. Jewish courtship tradition states that displays of affection only occur between married couples, and only in private situations.
Step 6:
Do not “broadcast” the fact that you are dating. The majority of dating in Jewish circles is done secretly, so that if things do not work out, there is no awkwardness, because no one (or at least very few people) knew about it.
Step 7:
When/if it becomes apparent that you are truly meant to be with this woman, continue the tradition by following the rules set forth within the Jewish religion for betrothal and marriage. Mazel tov!
надо уметь закрывать скучную книгу, уходить с неинтересного фильма, увольняться с плохой работы и расставаться с людьми, которые не дорожат тобой
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