Девушка для Едика.

[Ксюша Собчак]

Тут коварную роль сыграла география - наши дома расположены в 15-ти метрах друг от друга. А вообще у неё есть бойфренд, и она его любит, бойфренд в процессе развода, ей бывает одиноко...

Эдик ну ёпрст.. выходит она как бы к тебе протсо покурить приходит.(Ксюхе стало обидно за Эдика потому как она желает ему счастья)

[Donat]

донат. получается тут нету женшин для женитьбы...

потому груши и околачиваем :grum:

[stydent]

Ты дом рентуешь? Если да то в худшем варианте съедешь. А если нет то могут быть проблемы если с ней подыркаетесь. "Не жри где ср*шь, не ср* где жрёшь". ;)

У меня в билдинге есть тётка - супер секси и т.п. (хотя и моих лет). Уже как 6-7 мес. она ни с кем серьёзно не встречаеца. Так она всю зиму почти открытым текстом на трах зазывает. Но учитывая что она фриланс писательница (т.е. чел кому на самом деле делать нефиг) и живёт за счёт траст фондов родичей то это последнее что я хочу иметь на свою голову - разозлённую соседку после того как она мне приспичит после 2-3 перепихов. :(

надо уметь расходиться красиво... а вообше разозленные соседи очен;ь даже интересно...

[edik]

Ты дом рентуешь? Если да то в худшем варианте съедешь. А если нет то могут быть проблемы если с ней подыркаетесь. "Не жри где ср*шь, не ср* где жрёшь". ;)

У меня в билдинге есть тётка - супер секси и т.п. (хотя и моих лет). Уже как 6-7 мес. она ни с кем серьёзно не встречаеца. Так она всю зиму почти открытым текстом на трах зазывает. Но учитывая что она фриланс писательница (т.е. чел кому на самом деле делать нефиг) и живёт за счёт траст фондов родичей то это последнее что я хочу иметь на свою голову - разозлённую соседку после того как она мне приспичит после 2-3 перепихов. :(

Шведка магистра получит в июне и уедет к себе в Швецию...так уж особенно и не лезеть - тут я больше виноват...блин, ну не могу я один быть в доме, с ума сойти от тишины можно - 15 лет в семье прожил...без детского визга и гама чего-то не хватает...

[zgorynych]

надо уметь расходиться красиво... а вообше разозленные соседи очен;ь даже интересно...

Я то могу. Но обычно дамы пост-Бальзаковского возраста не очень хорошо на раставания реагируют. Особенно если у них идея фикс что тот мужик был их последним билетом к щастью. :(

Я уже один раз имел такой опыт с такой "соседкой" в жизни. Т.е. мы потрахивались задолго до того как она стала соседкой и перестали за долго до того. Но в один прекрасный день она заехала к нам в билдинг (не знаю что она себе возомнила). Ессно к тому моменту у меня была постоянная гф и кроме хай-бай с той соседкой ничего не было. С годами она озверела. Лытерали. Даже моя гф потом сказала что мол наверно та соседка к тебе питала сильные чувства если до сих пор так озлоблена. :confused: Справедливость восторжествовала и она недавно выехала из билдинга. "Но осадок остался". ;)

[zgorynych]

Шведка магистра получит в июне и уедет к себе в Швецию...так уж особенно и не лезеть - тут я больше виноват...блин, ну не могу я один быть в доме, с ума сойти от тишины можно - 15 лет в семье прожил...без детского визга и гама чего-то не хватает...

Если дети к тебе ходят 2-3 дня в неделю то вызови ау-пэрку. Убъёшь всех зайцев одним выстрелом. :D

[Donat]

Эдик, извиняй за загрязнение твоей темы, но это мне просто хочется запостать

Relationship terrorism is an increasingly ugly and destructive phenomenon between strong Alpha females and less driven, more laid-back, gamma guys. At first, it is easy to see the attraction between these disparate types.
The taut, controlled, go-getting female finds a charming, flexible chap who seems to be everything she is not: relaxed, nurturing and fun. So far, so promising. He can help her uncoil and bring romance and much-needed tenderness into her brittle life, while she can provide a lifestyle which is initially thrilling for its full-throttle dynamism.
This was certainly the case between me and my ex, who, at seven years younger than me, was, when I met him, settled in a corporate job in Somerset, coasting along but never going to reach for the fiscal stars. He seemed such a world apart from me and my competitive, high-octane friends that at first being with him felt like taking a holiday from myself. It was a blessed relief.
The rot sets in when the haze of love burns off and lurking resentment on both sides surges to the surface. My ex became irate that the full beam of my focus was on my career, while I was frustrated that he expected me to change when I had never claimed to be the stay-at-home, earth-mother type. We both wanted support and emotional attention that the other seemed unable to give.
In a situation like this, the woman wants her man to pull his weight ? mainly financially ? and, in a typically direct fashion, lets him know it. He, however, feels emasculated by her capricious demands and seeks to undermine her in an effort to flex his masculine muscle.
In our only post-mortem on our failed relationship this spring, four months after he left, I said to my ex: 'You pulled the trigger on this relationship.' And he shot back: 'But you loaded the gun.' At the time I found his suggestion ludicrous.
Sure, I was tense, stressed and distracted, but wasn't I working harder than him to bring home more bacon and look after our child? However, thinking about this article has changed my perspective.
Relationship terrorism is not, as some glossy women's magazines have suggested, exclusively a male preserve. Both partners are equally guilty of colluding in a power struggle which, unless they seek to redress the balance, will destroy any chances of a fulfilling, lasting union.
STATISTICS bear this out: the number of women entering the workplace has increased by a third since 1975, and in 2005 one third of all managers in business were women.
At the same time, 40 per cent of all marriages end in divorce. Clearly, it's difficult to deny the two sets of figures are in some way connected.
Relationship psychologist Dr Pam Spurr, author of Sex, Guys And Chocolate, says: 'I've come across this phenomenon many times and with more women in high-powered positions, power struggles like this are ever more common.
'Hard-hitting, driven women are attracted to slightly gentler, more laid-back men because in their subconscious they know they need more of that to get balance in their lives.'
But if opposites initially attract, over time they cause friction because what was first appealing becomes irritating to women and we end up thinking: 'I want a real man around, not a laid-back wimp.'
I have witnessed the lacerating cycles in which the man feels demeaned, so he thinks: 'Right, I'll demean her.' He feels bad about himself because he knows her friends and her peer group think he's a loser compared with her, so he lashes out.
Sarah Swift, 39, who earns a six-figure salary as a major figure in fashion PR, knows this to her cost. She was divorced from her husband, an award-winning documentary maker, two years ago, leaving her a single mother of two girls aged four and six.
'Mark resented me for earning more than him, even though, as he saw it, he had the more worthy, creative career,' she says. 'His response to that was to try to diminish me.
'I fell for him, however, because he was a great charmer and emotionally seemed in touch with himself.
BUT after a while I couldn't understand how, if he was so talented and creative, he was happy to sit on his backside and take my money?
'He was getting up at midday and watching football and would be just getting his act together when I was coming home from work.
'The only way he could put me in my place was to criticise my mothering. He would say: "You are a terrible mother. You should stay at home with the children."
'But that was all very well when he was steeped in debt and I was funding everything.'
Sarah believes one of the emotional flaws of Alpha women is that beneath their corporate armour, they are riddled with low self-esteem, which makes them more vulnerable when the gamma man turns on them.
'Many successful women have low self-worth which they are always trying to over-compensate for in their career,' she says.'They strive to be successful because deep down they never feel quite good enough, so they are easy to undermine, especially in a domestic situation. These less ambitious men can be so charming, but beneath it there is a viciousness that can destroy you because they hit you so hard emotionally.'
Alison Peters, 47, a lawyer living in London, saw her nine-year marriage fall victim to relationship terrorism six years ago. Her husband, Nick, was also a lawyer and they met through law school, so she presumed she had met her equal.
'I qualified at a time when scores of women were entering high-powered positions,' she says. 'At that time men whose partners were Alpha women felt that it was done thing to support those women, but the problem was that in reality they didn't really want a high-powered wife because that was threatening to their masculinity.'
A year into their marriage, as Alison's career was taking off, she began to realise that her husband did not share her ambition.
'He couldn't be bothered to sit his exams and dropped out of law. I became incredibly successful in my field and was earning all the money.
'We bought a house in the country and he spent all week there doing it up and tinkering with DIY while I flogged myself working in the City and returned exhausted at weekends.
'It created an atmosphere in which I felt I couldn't talk about certain things to do with my job.
'If I'd had a brilliant meeting, I couldn't share it for fear of upsetting him, so you start censoring your conversation and something fundamental eats away at your relationship.
'You can never discuss money because it's like lighting the blue touch paper. In the end he had an affair with an accounting clerk and then dared to tell me my career was to blame.
'Fundamentally, men resent women with a higher earning power because it gives the woman independence and means that men lose control and they don't like it.
'My ex waited until I got ill with a kidney infection and then went for me verbally. Instead of bolstering me up, he helped pull me down.
'He said I was ill because I had worked myself to the ground and insinuated that that made me a worthless sort of person when it came to relationships.
'He told his parents that we didn't have children because of my career, when the truth was that he had had a vasectomy but didn't want to tell them because he was Catholic.
'It was like he was going to pay me back for what I did, which was to be more successful than him.'
So what is the impact on Alpha women who provoke such attacks from their partners? Do they slog it out or do such messy break-ups cause them to reassess their lives?
Interestingly, Alison has married again and has given up her high-powered career to enable her second husband to be the main bread winner. She is qualifying as an astrologer, while her husband works in marketing.
'He feels more empowered and it is better emotionally for our relationship,' Alison says.
As I rehash my own failed relationship, the question I ask myself is: why didn't I go for an Alpha male in the first place?Psychologist Dr Robert Holden, author of Success Intelligence, says that often Alpha women do not go for their Alpha match because, for them, what appears on the outside to be emotional strength masks a fragility they have not come to terms with.
I would agree that, personally, I was too needy in emotional terms and so thought an Alpha male would not have time for me.'The big failure of Alpha women is that they starve themselves of attention and nurturing so they don't know what they want,' explains Dr Holden.
'If they are not careful, they end up choosing a feminine, caring man to take up the slack.
'This works in the honeymoon period but afterwards the problem is that each is trying to change each other rather than enjoy each other's differences.
'The woman says: "My role as Alpha female is to whip you into shape and make you more of a man."
'And he says: "I'm scared of how confident you are, so my role is to show you that you're not that confident emotionally, so that in the end you will stay with me because you need me."'
THE answer to successful relationships would appear to be the need for greater self-awareness and emotional honesty.
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'What I've found about many Alpha women is that in reality they do want a really powerful man in their lives, but perhaps they think it's horribly old-fashioned to admit the fact.
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How wonderful it would be to be loved and supported. Can a woman have a successful career and a successful relationship? Increasingly, I fear the answer is 'No'.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/ar...Gamma-man.html

[zgorynych]

"Альфа-ддевушка" это конттрадкишен ин тёрмз. Это просто девушка с повышенным % андрогенных (мужских) гормонов в организме. :(

[edik]

"подыркаетесь"..ыы..

Витта, я всё хотел вас спроить - на аватаре вы?

[stydent]

Я то могу. Но обычно дамы пост-Бальзаковского возраста не очень хорошо на раставания реагируют. Особенно если у них идея фикс что тот мужик был их последним билетом к щастью. :(

Я уже один раз имел такой опыт с такой "соседкой" в жизни. Т.е. мы потрахивались задолго до того как она стала соседкой и перестали за долго до того. Но в один прекрасный день она заехала к нам в билдинг (не знаю что она себе возомнила). Ессно к тому моменту у меня была постоянная гф и кроме хай-бай с той соседкой ничего не было. С годами она озверела. Лытерали. Даже моя гф потом сказала что мол наверно та соседка к тебе питала сильные чувства если до сих пор так озлоблена. :цонфусед: Справедливость восторжествовала и она недавно выехала из билдинга. "Но осадок остался". ;)

наверное много было недосказанного...