Should People who Love each other Keep thier email accounts

[tanya822]

Im not saying it is my right to read all of my wifes mail I cant she writes in Russian and I dont understand Russian but when I open her mail and ask what she has wrote she gets offended even though When she ask me any questions I hide nothing and she can read english . Our last argument was because I asked her what she sent to her friend It was concerning a green card . Green card was all that I understood in the letter so I asked her about it and she got mad and quickly deleted it then changed her password . I asked her if she ever went through my mail she said yes but she said she doesnt ask me questions so I guess asking her what she wrote is bad she knows I cant read Russian but she can read english so she doesnt need to ask me questions is that fair that she can read and understand all I write. But since I cant understand her letters and I ask her she gets mad why??? It makes me think she has something to hide even though I dont think anything is wrong . But if nothing is wrong couldnt she tell me what she wrote and leave out what she doesnt want me to know. It would get rid of any doubts I might have . Once she was writing a letter to her friend I reached over to kiss her and she quickly said cant I have my privacey even though I cant read what she is writing It made me to believe she is writing something that will offend and even though she knows I cant read it it made her uncomfotable that is what I believe. After all this now I wonder if thier is any email accounts that I dont know about if she is so private about the one I do know about

the problem not in the letters and emails the problem is in trustee and misunderstanding

[Bashmachnica]

а) у нас есть кнопка транслит
б) скыртность по отношению к е-маил первый признак что у вас на голове что то отрастает
в) конечно читать чужую переписку ну скажем не прилично однако если есть подозрения на семеиные проблемы то сделаите разок и успокоите свои нервы получите прямои ответ - да - да , нет - нет
г) смена пасспорта не проблема если письма лежат на вашем компютере (заидите из-под админа) однако если используется интернет боксы (типа yahoo, рамблер ну и тп) то лучше обзавестись потихоньку key logging programm а потом просто прочитать лог (Получите пасспорт на раз два)

Где её можно достать? Хотя-бы название, плизз! :?: :?:
I did not get the responce! :cry:

Does aanybody know the name of the soft? :evil:

[fstjmy05]

I want to thank all for your responses to my posting I will admit I was wrong I have no reason to doubt my wife and she has every right to her own privacy and I have no right to look into her mail I feel foolish that I thought I did. Because I didnt understand her I caused the problem If she wants to help her friend with the green card lottery it is her right to do so. The things we need to share we do Thank You all for helping me understand that

[fstjmy05]

I want to thank all for your responses to my posting I will admit I was wrong I have no reason to doubt my wife and she has every right to her own privacy and I have no right to look into her mail I feel foolish that I thought I did. Because I didnt understand her I caused the problem If she wants to help her friend with the green card lottery it is her right to do so. The things we need to share we do Thank You all for helping me understand that

[fstjmy05]

I want to thank all for your responses to my posting I will admit I was wrong I have no reason to doubt my wife and she has every right to her own privacy and I have no right to look into her mail I feel foolish that I thought I did. Because I didnt understand her I caused the problem If she wants to help her friend with the green card lottery it is her right to do so. The things we need to share we do Thank You all for helping me understand that

[fstjmy05]

I want to thank all for your responses to my posting I will admit I was wrong

[tanya822]

fstjmy05, how long before she'll get her citizenship yet? do you know any good divorce lowers..? If you ask me, it smells fishy...

I would more then happy to see you in this situation when you are alone in the foreign country have no friends have nobody to talk trying to connect to your own family and friends to talk and to relieve stress and your wife will gonna take it from you will read every single little paper and word you write for no reason ask you what is this just because she thinks that it's very suspitious to her AND then will see how quickly you will GO NUTS(CRAZY)!!! BESIDES THAT he forgot to add to the word "Green Card" the word "lottary" which I suggested to my dad to play to and my friend was supposed to help him. I got married not because of the citizenship I got married for family and we have been shared our emails for a long time before We were shared it until I funnaly couldn't stand it anymore !!! and I was telling him about 100 times before that I don't like the fact he is reading my mail. Besides that he is not just reading my mail he is looking through the mail box every 15 minutes
Answer me please why do you need to go to sent items and open the mail of my friend(girl) and read it beeng under promises to don't do it ? Will you be happy to put up with the problem like this .
How do you like the fact that my husbend doesn't like me to visit this site and going crazy everytime I look into it ? And beeing asking you this question he didn't meen that he want to devorse just because of this little problem (which is driving me and him nuts ) So what should I do ? Should I let him see my mail and everytime beeing asked what is this, who is this why did you say "hi solnse " or "how is my dad doing " and ufter that became crazy or should I just use my mail like I want - private?

And as I've seen so far by the answers most of the woman were talking about sharing emails and letters but most of the man were talking about sharing Bank accounts !!! It's not the subject we are talking about do not forget .
:(

[tanya822]

fstjmy05, how long before she'll get her citizenship yet? do you know any good divorce lowers..? If you ask me, it smells fishy...

I would more then happy to see you in this situation when you are alone in the foreign country have no friends have nobody to talk trying to connect to your own family and friends to talk and to relieve stress and your wife will gonna take it from you will read every single little paper and word you write for no reason ask you what is this just because she thinks that it's very suspitious to her AND then will see how quickly you will GO NUTS(CRAZY)!!! BESIDES THAT he forgot to add to the word "Green Card" the word "lottary" which I suggested to my dad to play to and my friend was supposed to help him. I got married not because of the citizenship I got married for family and we have been shared our emails for a long time before We were shared it until I funnaly couldn't stand it anymore !!! and I was telling him about 100 times before that I don't like the fact he is reading my mail. Besides that he is not just reading my mail he is looking through the mail box every 15 minutes
Answer me please why do you need to go to sent items and open the mail of my friend(girl) and read it beeng under promises to don't do it ? Will you be happy to put up with the problem like this .
How do you like the fact that my husbend doesn't like me to visit this site and going crazy everytime I look into it ? And beeing asking you this question he didn't meen that he want to devorse just because of this little problem (which is driving me and him nuts ) So what should I do ? Should I let him see my mail and everytime beeing asked what is this, who is this why did you say "hi solnse " or "how is my dad doing " and ufter that became crazy or should I just use my mail like I want - private?

And as I've seen so far by the answers most of the woman were talking about sharing emails and letters but most of the man were talking about sharing Bank accounts !!! It's not the subject we are talking about do not forget .
:(

[tanya822]

Не исключено, что речь идёт о девушке, которая приходит на этот форум. Я бы не стал давать никаких советов, кроме одного...Любой человек может иметь прайвиси. Это его/её право. Желание одного из двоих иметь всё общее, не должно заставлять другого разделять это мнение. Развод и девичья фамилия происходят не из-за скрытых емайлов и пассвордов, а из-за разных интересов и отсутствия чувств.

You are exactly right I just don't know what to do

[tanya822]

а) у нас есть кнопка транслит
б) скыртность по отношению к е-маил первый признак что у вас на голове что то отрастает
в) конечно читать чужую переписку ну скажем не прилично однако если есть подозрения на семеиные проблемы то сделаите разок и успокоите свои нервы получите прямои ответ - да - да , нет - нет
г) смена пасспорта не проблема если письма лежат на вашем компютере (заидите из-под админа) однако если используется интернет боксы (типа yahoo, рамблер ну и тп) то лучше обзавестись потихоньку key logging programm а потом просто прочитать лог (Получите пасспорт на раз два)

Где её можно достать? Хотя-бы название, плизз! :?: :?:
I did not get the responce! :cry:

Does aanybody know the name of the soft? :evil:

My darling my hasbend tried that to and you know what happaned to 2 of our computers they both crashed they just broken because this kind of softwear is damaging your computer and make it impossible using any kind of the infotmation you are scared to loose. You can download it for free it's called HOT LOGER OR KEY LOGER but you will reciave a qouple programs for present which will destroy you computer complately. Beliave me I wouldn't recomend to download anything from internet for free.

Thank you