Как Заарканить Мужчину: часть Вторая

[Screw101]

при чем статейка

почти все мои подруги, даже в России, замужем за ровесниками / младше себя

Это то, что называется anecdotal evidence. Есть определенные demographic trends в России. И то, что ты рассказываешь о подругах, скорее исключение, чем правило. Не пойми меня неправильно. Жениться можно на людях любого возраста...Равно, как и любить и трахать( чего уж говорить-сам грешен). Просто не нужно доказывать здесь недоказуемое. Я первый скажу 50-летнему, что не престало ему зыркать на 20-летних, но и вы, девушки...should have realistic expectations...

[CCPC]

конечно ...с учетом того, что она сама богатая девка. зачем ей старый хрыч

У меня сейчас так. 26 и 42.
Ты считаешь, я старый хрыч?

[Screw101]

У меня сейчас так. 26 и 42.
Ты считаешь, я старый хрыч?

Ты бы познакомил уже...

[Дженни]

The loosening of relationship conventions, which is not limited to age but also includes race, religion and economic status, appears to be particularly evident among female baby boomers, sociologists say, who are faced with the tightest “marriage squeeze” — the smallest pool of compatible men as conventionally defined, those two to three years older, of similar background and higher levels of education and income. The reason is that as women have delayed marriage, men still have a tendency to date and marry younger women.

In the last several years, as the loaded term cougar was popularized by the media’s frenzied fascination with Demi Moore’s marriage to Ashton Kutcher, 15 years her junior, and the dalliances and liaisons of other celebrities like Madonna and Katie Couric, researchers have begun to examine the older woman-younger man relationship. It is one that has long been taboo, heavily influenced by the Freudian notion that the older women are mother substitutes or “robbing the cradle.”

“For a long time we’ve been fed this idea that women should look for a man to take care of her, a man that is more educated, has a better job and makes more money,” said Sandra L. Caron, a professor of family relations and human sexuality at the University of Maine. “That might be fine and dandy if you’re in high school and have this fairy tale Prince Charming. But when you look at adult women, most are self-sufficient and they don’t have to look for that.”

Dr. Caron is an author of a 2006 study of couples in which the wife is at least 10 years older, which found surprisingly positive attitudes among the couples, although fear of stigma and insecurity about aging for the women, in particular, were common.

[Alex5448]

- какая статейка? По-моему, Дженни личный опыт описывала.
Делюжинал, кто бы говорил.
Глянь хоть на форумских вечнозелёных красавцев: я так подозреваю, в реале-то уже в суставах скрипит, в косточках дребезжит, кой-где верёвочкой подвязано, сбоку тряпочкой подоткнуто и резиночкой замотано, чтобы песок не сыпался... а всё туда же, рассуждают, вставные челюсти придерживая, о девушках 20+...

Какая разница? Молодые девушки всегда встречались и выходили замуж за 40-50 летних, из за простых биологических и эволюционных причин. Мужчина может оплодотворить и в 70, а бабы рожать перестают обычно после 40-45.

[Дженни]

A survey in 2003 by AARP of 2,094 older single women, 40 to 69, found that 20 percent were dating or had recently dated a man at least five years younger.

Christie Nightingale, founder of Premier Match, a matchmaking service that charges from $6,500 to $50,000 and has 10,000 members in its database, said she had seen a striking leap of interest among women from their early 40s to late 50s in dating men up to 15 years younger. Ms. Nightingale, 45, whose husband is five years her junior, estimated a 30 percent increase in such requests from women in the last year. She attributed it to pop culture’s infatuation with May-December relationships as well as the underlying demographics.

“It’s become so mainstream and accepted that a lot of people are jumping on the bandwagon,” she said.

But, she added, it is not always easy to persuade the men to participate.

“I have to be conscious of how many cougars I’ll actually work with,” she said. “If a woman is truly stunning, a really pretty woman who has a good attitude, who is hip and youthful, I can call some of these men on the fence and maybe get them to go with someone older. There are younger men who are sick and tired of women their age — they want a woman who is more grounded and more mature. Age is just a number.”

[Кошка Мурка]

У меня сейчас так. 26 и 42.
Ты считаешь, я старый хрыч?

Мой милёнок, старый хрыч,
Взял купил себе "Москвич".
Налетел на тягача -
Ни хрыча, ни "Москвича"... (фольклор)

Пардон, чего-то вспомнилось, не знаю, по какой ассоциации...

[Screw101]

A survey in 2003 by AARP of 2,094 older single women, 40 to 69, found that 20 percent were dating or had recently dated a man at least five years younger.

Christie Nightingale, founder of Premier Match, a matchmaking service that charges from $6,500 to $50,000 and has 10,000 members in its database, said she had seen a striking leap of interest among women from their early 40s to late 50s in dating men up to 15 years younger. Ms. Nightingale, 45, whose husband is five years her junior, estimated a 30 percent increase in such requests from women in the last year. She attributed it to pop culture’s infatuation with May-December relationships as well as the underlying demographics.

“It’s become so mainstream and accepted that a lot of people are jumping on the bandwagon,” she said.

But, she added, it is not always easy to persuade the men to participate.

“I have to be conscious of how many cougars I’ll actually work with,” she said. “If a woman is truly stunning, a really pretty woman who has a good attitude, who is hip and youthful, I can call some of these men on the fence and maybe get them to go with someone older. There are younger men who are sick and tired of women their age — they want a woman who is more grounded and more mature. Age is just a number.”

That only means that the rest of them(80%) were still dating an older man....

[Дженни]

“I think men are deeply attracted to a woman who knows what it’s all about and is sexually free,” said Pepper Schwartz, a sociologist at the University of Washington and a sex columnist and author. “The idea of a woman who is sexually knowledgeable and passionate is very attractive to a lot of young men who are getting more hesitant interactions or conditional sexual access from younger women.”

But economics is also a key factor. Both women and men, particularly as the wage gap has narrowed, are growing more comfortable with the possibility that she is the higher earner, sociologists say. And while she may not want to take a slacker under her wing, she is less likely to be focused on the status of her partner than women of previous generations.

[CCPC]

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